Monday, December 29, 2014

The Empty Chair

Well, Christmas 2014 has come and gone.

Some of my siblings got out of Dodge, because they knew how hard it would be.

The first Christmas after a loved one has gone is always the hardest.

I still remember so well Christmas 1992.  My Dad had died just a few weeks before.  We had Christmas at their place...Christmas Eve, as our family had done for so many years previous.

The empty chair....Dad's chair...was very painful to see.

I think we were all wrecks that night...but we struggled on.

Christmas 2014...Mom's empty chair was gone...her apartment closed up...a thousand knick-knacks given away.

But I think of that chair. ( I took a photo to remember it)

We gathered together this past Christmas Eve again.  At the back of all of our minds...our loved ones who are no longer here.

Mom & Dad....we love you....and we miss you.  Christmas is just not the same without you!

Thankfully....we had small children to keep us occupied....our minds focused.

And I am grateful.  Mom & Dad would have loved it too.


Friday, December 19, 2014

O Come, Emmanuel


O come, Thou Day-Spring, come and cheer 
Our spirits by Thine advent here 
Disperse the gloomy clouds of night 
And death's dark shadows put to flight. 
Rejoice! Rejoice! Emmanuel 
Shall come to thee, O Israel.

Wednesday, December 03, 2014

Memories: The Happy Prince

When our kids were young, I would often borrow the 16mm projector from work.

Amazing how technology has changed in the last 30 years!

Our local library had a great selection of movies.  On huge reels!

We would close the window shades, and I would use those shades as our screen.

Our kids loved the novelty of the whole thing!

And so did we.

I came across one of our favorite movies, on YouTube.

The Happy Prince (Published May 1888)...based on a book written by Oscar Wilde.

The video is narrated by Canadian Actor Christopher Plummer.

I love the story and the timeless message. And I love remembering the good times we had as a family.


Monday, December 01, 2014

Medicine & a warning from history


http://www.mcgill.ca/prpp/files/prpp/leo_alexander_1949_---_medical_science_under_dictatorship.pdf

In my public speaking days, I often had the chance to refer to an amazing article by Dr. Leo Alexander, that appeared in the New England Journal of Medicine in 1949.

Entitled, "Medical Science under Dictatorship, the article examined the numerous social reasons for the corruption of the medical community before and during the second world war.

It is a fascinating read, even today, especially when there are elements still pushing for euthanasia.

I know one must be careful in using ANY comparisons with medicine during that time.

However, there are principles and decisions that impact medicine, and either place or remove the view of "life", by that I mean the specialness of "sanctity" of human life.

What is always important, is to make sure we examine history and then learn from it.

This is just such the case.

Dr. Alexander has much to teach us, even though so many years separate us from the evil of that day....and people don't realize that it had nothing to do with the NAZIS. 

For example: 

    Even before the Nazis took open charge in Germany, a propaganda barrage was directed against the traditional compassionate nineteenth-century attitudes toward the chronically ill, and for the adoption of a utilitarian, Hegelian point of view. Sterilization and euthanasia of persons with chronic mental illnesses was discussed at a meeting of Bavarian psychiatrists in 1931.1 By 1936 extermination of the physically or socially unfit was so openly accepted that its practice was mentioned incidentally in an article published in an official German medical journal.

    Lay opinion was not neglected in this campaign. Adults were propagandized by motion pictures, one of which, entitled "I Accuse," deals entirely with euthanasia. This film depicts the life history of a woman suffering from multiple sclerosis; in it her husband, a doctor, finally kills her to the accompaniment of soft piano music rendered by a sympathetic colleague in an adjoining room. Acceptance of this ideology was implanted even in the children. A widely used high-school mathematics text, "Mathematics in the Service of National Political Education," includes problems stated in distorted terms of the cost of caring for and rehabilitating the chronically sick and crippled. One of the problems asked, for instance, how many new housing units could be built and how many marriage-allowance loans could be given to newly wedded couples for the amount of money it cost the state to care for "the crippled, the criminal and the insane."
 Alexander then goes on about sterlizations, experimentations, etc. and how it was all related and "justified" for the good of society.

He then sets his sites on Western thought and attitudes...and includes a warning...answering the question everyone asks...how could it have happened?

He writes:
Whatever proportions these crimes finally assumed, it became evident to all who investigated them that they had started from small beginnings. The beginnings at first were merely a subtle shift in emphasis in the basic attitude of the physicians. It started with the acceptance of the attitude, basic in the euthanasia movement, that there is such a thing as life not worthy to be lived. This attitude in its early stages concerned itself merely with the severely and chronically sick. Gradually the sphere of those to be included in this category was enlarged to encompass the socially unproductive, the ideologically unwanted, the racially unwanted and finally all non-Germans. But it is important to realize that the infinitely small wedged-in lever from which this entire trend of mind received its impetus was the attitude toward the nonrehabilitable sick. 
And one of the most powerful of quotes:
It is the first seemingly innocent step away from principle that frequently decides a career of crime. Corrosion begins in microscopic proportions.
The entire article has been put online and is available here. It makes for fascinating reading...and serves as a warning that we ignore the lessons of history at our own peril...and our discarding of the age-old Judeo-Christian views on life come at a price.